#17 2010, Life’s Little Rules
Life’s Little Rules…from a sunny deck
In these challenging days we are all searching for some kind of direction. Some sign that we are going to get through this mess and come out the other side a better, stronger person. We are all looking for the answer. How would I handle a big budget cut? What would I do if my husband got laid off? How can I make my kids more accountable for their actions? How can I make my community a better place to live?
Faced with these huge issues we are all looking for guidelines, direction, even inspiration to help us navigate these troubled waters. As I was walking Diefenbaker yesterday, I was thinking about signs and, like any good librarian I started making a list of life’s little rules, for example…….
- Ask questions and be inquisitive. There is always more than one side to every story and more than one solution to every problem.
- Trust your gut feelings but when you don’t know what to do, have the courage to sit still and listen, the answer will come!
- Have the courage to say “yes” and the strength to hear “no”.
- Take calculated risks; it’s what makes life interesting and moves us ahead
- Listen and read, you do not have all the answers!
- Live a life filled with innovation and new ideas…it will keep you young!
- Anticipate good intentions from everyone you meet. 99% of people truly have the best of intentions at heart, so start from there.
- Always promise 2 inches farther than you think you can reach…that’s how you grow and learn, by pushing yourself.
- It’s all about passion. Your success, at the library and personally is directly proportional to your commitment…it’s all about passion!!!!
- Family and friends really matter. It is why most of us do what we do, so be sure they are at the centre of your life.
- Smile and enjoy the adventure. We will find our way through these tough times and we will be all the stronger.
I share these insights into life’s little rules from a sunny deck in East Peoria.
Have a great week…kp
kpope #17 June 2010